by Barry D. Phillips, author of I Planted the Seed (and Woody Squashed It).
I was captivated from the first note—this guitar was it! After sampling more than a hundred guitars in five music stores, I knew I’d found the one I’d been seeking. It was a classical guitar with a beautiful rosewood body and a tightly grained cedar top. No plywood or laminates on this instrument, only intricately constructed solid wood. The salesman watched my face light up when I played a few chords, and he knew the sale was concluded. There was no need to waste time telling me about the ebony finger board, inlaid rosette and headstock, double binding or the free plush case that was included; it was clear that I wanted this guitar. No, I needed this guitar! The tone was remarkable; the treble tones were crisp and bright, and the bass was punchy and boomy. It’s hard to describe tonal qualities such as “complex” or “woody,” but this guitar had the right blend of everything, and it looked as good as it sounded. Four hundred dollars seemed a huge sum of money in 1973, but this guitar wasn’t merely a purchase or an investment—it was to become the expression of my creativity.
While my guitar never acquired a name like BB King’s Lucille, it became my prized possession. It was actually much more than a mere possession; it became my companion. It consoled me during dark times and was by my side during revelry and festivity. I played it for profit at wedding ceremonies, on stage at bars and for tips in pizza parlors. I praised God with it at churches and spent more than a thousand hours playing it alone in my room. It found a prominent place in each home as I moved through nine US states and two foreign nations. I changed the strings regularly, cleaned and oiled both the tuning machines and the wood frequently. I even wiped off fingerprints before putting it away after every use. And, after more than thirty years of heavy playing, there wasn’t a scratch to be found on it.
God led my family from our ministry in the Philippine jungle to Savannah, Georgia, in the summer of 2004. We carried only a few personal items and clothes with us. My guitar, of course, came along. We shopped at garage sales and thrift shops and soon filled each room of our home with furniture and appliances. It was like we were newlyweds again, purchasing kitchen things, bedroom things, living room things, and patio stuff. And, even though we were frugal in selecting what we purchased, I mentally converted every dollar we spent into pesos, imagining how that amount would have been better spent back in the Philippines. America seemed overly materialistic, and I struggled with the transition back into my own culture. In the midst of this reverse culture shock, I vowed that I would never be owned by a possession and began to survey what we’d amassed since our return.
Almost immediately, my attention was drawn to the guitar case standing in the corner of the room. Oh no! Not my guitar! Could I possibly unhand it? It had been with me longer than my wife and children—how could I possibly part with it? But the Lord convicted me. The guitar had become an idol that had to go. That very day, a young man from our new church came to our house for guitar lessons from my son, and I overheard him saying he needed to save up to buy a better instrument. The Lord provided me with a perfect opportunity to be generous and to liberate myself from the only possession that I considered too precious to lose. The Lord made it clear to me: If a possession is too precious to part with, you don’t own it—it owns you!
Jesus says in Matthew 6:19-21, “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” (NIV)
Where is your treasure? Consider your most prized possession; could you give it away? Try it. You’ll find it liberating.








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February 7, 2012 at 10:20 pm
Kristy Henderson
Loved this Barry!! What a great reminder!
February 9, 2012 at 8:25 pm
barry
Thanks Kristy! You are a perfect example of this lesson – you and Travis are stewards of what God has entrusted to you and I want to follow your example. We love and miss you guys and hope to see you this spring.
February 8, 2012 at 6:11 am
catherine
Barry, I was in church the morning you and Lilia shared this story (and her part in it, as well). I have never forgotten it. In the seven years since, whenever I feel even the slightest nudge to give something away, no matter what it is, I always try to do it.
Excellent story, thanks for sharing. You’re a good friend.
c
February 9, 2012 at 8:26 pm
barry
I appreciate you more than I’ve expressed. You have influenced and encouraged so many people along your path and I’m grateful to be one of them.
February 8, 2012 at 7:12 am
Diana
What an amazing testimony. So many times we get attached to things here on earth, but we must keep focused on what God has to say regarding this matter.
Thank you so much for sharing!
http://afragileclayjarwithatreasureinside.blogspot.com/
February 9, 2012 at 8:29 pm
barry
Thanks, Diana. I appreciate your encouragement. I’d have responded to your kind remark earlier, but we’ve had no power for the past 36 hours. (Running on generator now.) I think, maybe, I’m getting quite attached to this generator, but will require more prayer before I unhand it.
– In His service, Barry
February 8, 2012 at 8:00 am
heathermflood
Putting aside the fact that you are a very good story teller (you had me at “I was captivated…”), this is really challenging, convicting and causes me to do a little heart survey. Thanks Barry.
February 9, 2012 at 8:32 pm
barry
Thanks, Heather. We all battle with ownership versus stewardship, but it’s become quite personal to me since I live among some of the world’s poorest and God has blessed me with so much. I appreciate your encouragement! In His service,
Barry
February 8, 2012 at 8:42 am
Ranee
When I began to read, I thought what a lovely story and then I kept reading!! Thanks for the challenge this morning. I will never forget your teachings while I was in the Philippines; “if you have a jet ski, you better have a jet ski ministry” Thanks, Barry.
February 9, 2012 at 8:34 pm
barry
Renee,
I’d forgotten sharing my “jetski” philosophy with the team, but am certain that I said it. Perhaps I can devise a less abrasive approach to teach this concept. I look forward to seeing you in the spring. In His service – Barry
February 8, 2012 at 9:39 am
Nancy Jill Thames
A great post reminding me to take my own advice and throw/give away five things everyday. An unencumbered life is a blessed life!
February 9, 2012 at 8:37 pm
barry
The unencumbered life is truly a blessed life. I see simplicity and happiness in the lives of people around me here in the Philippines and am reminded of how blessed I am. Thanks for all you do in service to our Lord.
Barry
February 8, 2012 at 8:23 pm
Jesse Phillips
Great article, Dad. I’ve been blessed to have you as an example of Christ-like living.
February 9, 2012 at 8:43 pm
barry
Whether you realize it or not, you remain a source of inspiration to me. Your faith strengthens me, compelling me to live as an example to others. I’m blessed to have you as a son, but also as a continual reminder that there’s a better man inside of me and a higher purpose for my life than I even realize.
February 12, 2012 at 9:37 am
Vikki de los Reyes (@akindredspirit)
Dear Barry, this is an excellent story about not just being generous, but being *extravagantly* generous. Such a heart-warming thing to do! Letting go of something that is precious to you… What a great reminded for me to be more aware of the opportunities that are all around me to give. Thanks for sharing!
February 12, 2012 at 7:04 pm
barry
Thanks Vikki. I was recently reminded from 2 Samuel – 24:24 that we’re not giving sacrificially unless it cost us something. I can honestly say that there’s currently nothing in my possession that I’m unwilling to give away. The guitar given away in this story was the beginning of that journey, and I’ve liberated five more guitars since then. There are so many guitarists who deserve a quality instrument more than I do, and the Lord seems to point them out to me. I spent two hours scouring ebay last night in search of a replacement acoustic guitar to play for a season or two, but already know that it will ultimately be given to someone else. There’s actually a ministry in Louisiana (http://guitarministries.com/) that provides guitars to ministries in need of a decent instrument. I appreciate that you serve our kapatiran medically. If you have the time, come join us in the Aurora Province in June (16-24) when we have a small medical team from North Carolina here for a medical mission trip. In His service – Barry